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In the haphazard data of Internet it was always difficult for me to find a simple answer on how to be a good listener and how to be better at conversations. This simple questions answer came to me after reading books both fictional and non fictional, observing people linked as smart and making a fool out of me.  so the magical and not so magical answer is.... 1. Listen  Listen! just listen with no other thought in mind. do not think what the next work you will be going after the conversations or how boring the person is talking or what answer should you give after the conversation ends.    2.  Analyse Analysis seems like a big word to digest.  what does it mean actually? how should I analyse while having a conversation (after just reading the above second point).  What I mean by 'analyse' is to see do you think the other person speaking making sense to you!  and if the speaker is sharing some new information then do not analyse but listen ti...

Cheers to overthinkers. Do you ever feel proud of being an overthinker? Because some people surely do. Apparently, I know someone who says he is an overthinker. And he has accepted the fact he falls into this 4 by 4 box.  Think yourself! Isn't overthinking considered a bad thing? Doesn't overthinking lead to stress may be in some cases depression? Then why is it that some people have accepted it like this is their own skin? Why they are comfortable being called overthinkers?  The answer simple is self-pity. And self-pity is a bitch. Beware of it. Be easy on yourself, but not that easy that you fool yourself and pity yourself.